Added: Aug 20, 2008

From: SrgtWilliepete

Duration: 10:50

This has nothing to with what the video is about - but I thought ya'll should read this Anonymous White Girl Read if you have a minute. Read if you have a minute. I have been in several IRR with black men. I think it might have something to do with my upbringing. My highschool was set in a predominately white area in a 98% white state in New England. It was a college prep school/and also my town's public highschool. The campus had several dormitories that were for guys who were looking to go professional in basketball or football but wanted to get an edge on their game or strengthen their academic skills (SAT scores) before appyling to college. A lot of the students came from all over the country, the large majority of them being black. More often then not I ended up dating them over the white guys I grew up with. They seemed so much older (and street smart) than the local guys from my town. A lot of my friends ended up dating interacially too because of it. I kind of got used to black men because so many of my first experiences with love and relationships happened to have turned out to be interacial. I never looked at it like that though until it was pointed out to me, and I was like "yeah I guess I have dated a lot of black guys..." (I have not exclusively dated outside my race though.) You make some very dead on points. On the whole white women now have asses thing. The fact is a lot of us always hid any ass we did have or wore clothing to camouflage it because we percieved anything but being straight up and down to be fat. I clearly remember black guys in highschool saying to me. "Why do you always wear long shirts or coats tied around your waist? You look good back there." (My ass is far from huge, but I have one) and it struck me right between the eyes like "yeah what's my problem? I'm a girl and I have a shape, why is it bad?" For years I even carried my backpack in a way to hide any ass that I had because I percieved having a butt as being "fat". I actually envied my friends that didn't have a butt. Friends would tell me. "Don't take it as a compliment if black guys think you look good cause that means you're fat." Regarding the black women with attitudes, I hate to say it but I tend to agree. I've certainly had more interaction with black men in my life then black women. The handful of BW I have interacted with have been difficult (for the most part not always) EXAMPLE: It seems if I get waited on by a black guy (even a teenager) they are friendly, smiling and talkative sometimes to the point of being flirtacious. If I get waited on by BW I feel like I am bothering them and I get a lot of mumbling, sighing and rarely any eye contact. On many occasions my money has been dropped into my hand like I am a leper. It's messed up. I remember one time my friend and I were down in Atlantic City and some black guys came over to us and started flirting and talking with us. We laughed and chatted with them for a minute and then went on our way. Some black girls were nearby and as we walked past we got the stink eye and one said something to the effect of "can't stand bitches like you..." My car was nearby and when I came back to it there was a huge wad of spit on my door handle. (not saying it was them but what are the odds?) On a sort of positve note: A while back I was in a club dancing. There was this tall, really pretty, model-looking black girl standing all by herself and we made eye contact. I motioned for her to come dance with us since she was all alone (and me and all my friends were out on the dancefloor) so she came over and we were dancing and acting silly and crazy and then she kind of leaned in and told me that she liked me...and was I into her? And I was thinking, "ohhhh that's not what I intended." I just smiled and danced the rest of the song kind of brushing it off. Funny huh?... at least she was nice to me!

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