Added: Nov 18, 2008
From: MetaphysicalSciences
Duration: 4:19
University Of Metaphysical Sciences, Christine Breesehttp://www.umsonline.orghttp://www.youtube.com/MetaphysicalSciencesUniversal Church of Metaphysics 501(c)3http://www.ucmeta.orgStarlight Journal Ezine Metaphysical Newsletterhttp://www.starlightjournal.comChristine Breesehttp://www.christinebreese.infohttp://www.christinebreese.comThese talks by Christine Breese are satsang videos especially for the internet directly to you, sponsored by University Of Metaphysical Sciences. Christine Breese is the founder of University of Metaphysical Sciences, which offers Bachelors, Masters, Doctorate D.D. and Ph.D. degrees in metaphysical subjects.Christine Breese speaks often of being still in the mind and being in the moment. This is only the beginning of enlightenment. After that, the experience of knowing the self that you are is ever deepening and the journey truly never ends. If you would like to meet Christine Breese in person, she offers retreats throughout the year. You can contact University Of Metaphysical Sciences at http://umsonline.org/MeditationRetreats/WinterMeditationSatsangRetreats/CaliforniaWinterRetreatsChristineBreese.html for retreat schedules or registration. You can also hear 10 minute meditations by Christine at MySpace at http://www.myspace.com/awakennowretreats If you would like transcripts of these Christine Breese, University Of Metaphysical Sciences videos, visit:http://www.christinebreesevideotranscripts.comChristine Breese says, "Letting go of a relationship that is ending, or love that has gone sour, is something you have to do whether you like it or not. There is no way to hold on to a relationship that is slipping away. If you hold onto it at the end, you only cause yourself great suffering and polarize the person from even being willing to be in a friendship with you. You cause yourself pain, struggle and sadness. Love gone sour is poisonous. There is no need to make the ending of a relationship more painful than it already is. Accept the pain that is there with the ending relationship, and be willing to release the struggle so that you don't have to create a more painful experience in the ending of that relationship.""Might as well be friends with the person you were in a relationship with, if that is possible. True relationships are hard to come by, even in the form of friendships. If you have been that close to each other, might as well be friends! Mature couples can do that, letting go of the previous form of the relationship that is ending and allowing a new form to come after the end. Then love that has gone sour can turn into a deeper love that lasts through time. Pain can be turned into wisdom, and struggle can be avoided altogether.""To let go of a relationship that is ending, just relax and let go of your attachment to having the relationship. Realize that another will come. It is not the last relationship you will ever have. It is not the last opportunity you will have. This is not the end of "everything" even though it might seem that way. To let go of a relationship that is ending, you must be willing to be in the no man's land for a little while and allow yourself to be alone. Letting go of an ending relationship is a sign of mastery and acceptance in life, allowing things to come and go in your reality without struggle. If you are able to let go of things when they end, letting go will become a relief rather than a frightening experience.""You came to be very familiar with the relationship and it gave you stability, even if it was a rocky and unpleasant relationship. However, by letting go of this relationship, you make room for a new and higher relationship to happen, one that is more fitting for you. The fact that things come and go, things begin and end, that is a good thing. It means that there is always change, which is healthy. So let the relationships come and go in your life as they will, let go when it is time to let go at the end, and if a relationship is meant to stick, it will. If not, let it go without struggle and relationships will be less painful when they end."christine breese relationships end come and go let letting of relationship ending struggle couple love painful pain 20 Relationships End Come And Go, Letting Go of Relationshipend of a relationshiprelationship endend a relationshipend of relationshipend relationshipbroken heartbroken hearted
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Rating: 4.84 (58 ratings) Views: 2201' favoriteCount='42 Comments: 25
EMJAYVISION365 Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - I love you so much
eiknalb Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Thank you Christine. Much love.
beofonemind Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - right on sister.... this is the hardest lesson for people to learn..but learning it is awesome!!!! but do u really beleive that anyone really dies?
Aarashguitar Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Thanks alot for your wonderful videos.GOD bless you.
linguini82 Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - you are such a smart lady. it took me 3 years to understand such a simple princple, that people come and go, if someone leaves you, they are not meant to be in your life. and the way you says it, brings peace into everyone.thank you.I hope more people will know about your video.
vesivialvy Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - thanks Christine for this positive message !It feel really great to thing about this positive way to see the end of great things in our life but now i have a problem , the dark side of this is that from now bad moments too will come again and again , from this point of view when we finish a very bad moment we can be certain that the next very bad moments or nightmare will come soon or later...how can i solve this logical paradox ??
tantraman07 Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Nicely said, thanks!
YouhideIseek Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - I was so upset when the video ended but I said all things, including this video must pass. Then again i can just press replay and enjoy Christine 4 ever! :)
speedallurement Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - i wanna get find a girl and marry her, its just that ive been letting go of so many girls....
speedallurement Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - im also clurious if u can make a video of tips to get chicks....?
MetaphysicalSciences Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Ha! Ok, it goes on the list of topics that we'll give Christine to talk about, she'll think this is pretty funny, I'll bet she'll do it. One thing she would say though, that I've heard her say, is that you'll want to do your personal spiritual homework while you're alone and become very attractive energetically, and then the chicks will come to you! No neediness, that's repusive. Have lots to give, and chicks will come to get it.
halation777 Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - I'm having a very difficult time with my wife and I being separated. We have a four year old boy also. She was the one to leave and I'm clinging...is there ANYTHING worth struggling for, fighting for? Do you just give up when things don't go well?? I'm really having a hard time with this.
GodSaveThePres Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Oh my god I love your videos your so amazing !!Love * 1nessTamid
GodSaveThePres Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - You'll find the right one eventually
MetaphysicalSciences Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - The path of least resistance is to let go of that which doesn't want to stay. You can stop the river. If it is flowing a different direction, you have to let it. Trust that someone else will come your way, it's not the end... promise!
cyndiisway Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - So be it.indeed.love yourself.love each other.thanks for putting it out there!
namrengav Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - "With open eyes life's a simple dream, ya gotta love your selfCos you never can see for anybody else!We're all more than brothers and sisters now, we're a part of weWhen I see me in the light I shine on everybodyYou're all more than brothers and sisters now, you're a part of meAnd I like me and I love me, so you see: I love everybody!"copyright c eric wagner 2005
sephg Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Thank you for making this video. You really do make me smile, because no matter how much I know all of these life philosophies, I can definitely get out of touch with them, and you have a way of tuning me right back in. I appreciate what you do immensely.
thesimulacre Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - It helps to keep in mind impermanence in order to more fully be here. I have been reminded of this by two deaths and one goodbye in the last year. From your point of view as present and intensely engaging I could see how a casualness would be extremely beneficial, but for those of us who pass up opportunities more often a casual outlook is precisely the problem. "We will have to come see you" becomes chilling when it echoes in your mind as the last thing you told somebody. More than once.
jshred24 Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - I just had a relationship end about 2 months ago, it was a 4 year relationship. She was the one who decided to end it. Till this day I still find myself wanting her back or fading into those memories we had together and i start feeling like sh**. I would always tell myself these same things from this video, but watching this did help alot more.
affluence8 Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Wonderful...
preciouzpistol Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - My boyfriend, then fiance just broke up with me after over 3 years of being together and my heart is has broken into a million peices and I dont see it getting better. I really hope something better (someone better) comes along but I wont be able to ever not compare the "new guy" to the one I lost, no one will compare to him and Im so hurt. Hopefully better things will come like u said, but he was the best thing in my life, what I lived for, I really hope Ill be able to move on but I doubt it :(
ZackisDead Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Maybe you should get yourself to a point where you don't require the new guy to validate you before you go looking for the replacement.The fact that you look at 3 years as a long relationship speaks to your inexperience. Nobody likes to be dumped but if he didn't have a valid reason that you need to examine then he just got bored and you don't need to be with anybody who treats you as disposable. You'll be fine.
asm120160 Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - Thank you! its so good to be reminded of the impermanence of everything and it makes it that much easier to let go of the old and the passing.Love to all
misseptember Says:
Nov 18, 2008 - non attachment, a big part of living is an enlightened human being.