Babyface - How Come, How Long Videos

dizmizzundastood Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - we have to learn to forgive just as god foegives us everyday.

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - i have yet to see a good reason, and what he did was unforgivable and im not going to try

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - sitting on his ass while a little boy gets attacked and damaged, and having that little boys potential ruined for the sake of someone who wants to be mean does NOT show caring, he thought it was more important to watch birds fall than to get off his ass and help! it would be nice to believe that my father would be punished but with the evidence ive seen i have to doubt it. i dont believe in hope, not anymore

CaptainBootHead Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - it shows the community dynamics also. How they knew what was happening, but didn't want to get involved. Its sad, because alot of peoeple see a husband beat his wife, or vise versa, and they do nothing about it. The victim doesn't have a voice to speak, so we need to keep our eyes open and think about whats happeneing...if u see this happeneing, hear it..or whatever, say something Because she or he doesn't have to voice to say anything.

dagiiraaz Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - Hi my ex love E,My ex-b/friend loved this song a lot. but we broke up now, everytime i listen to this song, i just cry, cry and cry. If u r reading this msg now, i cry inside s.times, coz i think i made u suffer making a strong decision for break-up. i think about u everytime i listen to this song... I.m very very sorry if i did s.thing cruel to u... I have no words to say. I still care about u in my heart believe it or not! O...

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - id like to add something to what you said, its for teachers, if a student is showing signs of ADHD, start asking questions, ask if daddy is hitting them, or slapping them, or is mean, ADHD and the signs of child abuse share the same symptoms, you might uncover some abuse and get that kid some help

SWEET18360 Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - this is the song that made me leave the relationship i was in after he started to abuse me this song does open your eyes to a lot of things

zyphos1 Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - I was amazed when I read your posts. I can only say that for me God doesn't have to prove anything to us, but it's us that have to prove something to Him... with our faith. God for me has proven to be there if I kept my faith and learned to listen instead of harden my heart. My story is pretty harsh like your's is, but one thing I know is God will listen if you truly listen to Him... and you need your faith to know what I mean. God loves us no matter what we've done or been through.

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - i tried, i HAD faith, the last thing he said to me was that he had no time or room for me, yeah, god said that, so you will have to excuse me if im furious with him for not being anywhere near when he is needed. im not above someone proving me wrong, if im wrong, he can look in my mind and see the 3 things i thought of that would at the least prove me wrong about him not have any kind of mercy and pick one to act on, i wont say what those are, if he cares as much as others say, he can prove it.

greattaiwo Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - You are quite bitter with God, and I understand.But He does care, even when it seems that He won't "prove" it.There are many things we do not yet understand.He has time for you, and that voice cannot be God becos that is not in line with his word.Swallow your pain and make peace with your God.Can man strive with his maker?.God has nothing to prove anymore.He already did by giving His best possession;Jesus.We are the ones who now have something to prove, if we really believe.Fight on,my friend.

JMAHabashi Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - God is not man that he should lie... and his words says that he will never leave you neither forsake you and when your father and mother forsake you then God will take you up(Pslams27) Jesus loves you and NEVER will He tell you that He has no time neither room for you so tell that lieing devil He is a lier and rebuke him in the name of Jesus! My father never loved me, he and my mother arent married and they have 4children 2gether myself included and all my life he never wanted anything to do wit

JMAHabashi Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - TO:Feralbigdog... My father would take my other sibling at his house for sleep overs and they met his wife and my other bro and sis and he would bring them christmas gifts and phone calls on their bday but never did I get a simple hello and he even told me once he doesnt want anything to do with me and I think is was maybe 12 at the time and for years I cried for the man that hurt me to love me. One day I met Jesus and He showed me His eternal,unconditional love and I no longer wanted my dad own

JMAHabashi Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - and the areas in my life where I felt inadequate and all of the negitive thoughts I had of myself Jesus took away and I began to study the word of God and I saw how God sees me and now I'm whole in HIS love. I challenge you give God your heart and see what He'll give you in return. I'm praying for you.

BravesFan84 Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - I'm a country music fan, but am familiar with Babyface and the likes of Brian McKnight and others, but man, this is one of the most amazing songs I've heard of ANY genre. By the way, Stevies vocals fit in quite nicely in the song.

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - pt1 greattaiwo, bitter is an understatement, if he cared, he would have shown it long before now, he didnt. he LET a GROWN ADULT RUIN my life, let him DAMAGE my brain by causing mini concussions for his fun, i begged him to stop, and he instead of stopping, LAUGHED, i know for a fact it was god saying there was no room for me, because i asked in the one place only he could hear me- in my mind, and that is where i heard the answer of no room for me as for this jesus person, he is just as UNCARING

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - pt2 if either had cared so much as an ounce, he would have stopped him in his tracks, he would have been there for us(my family, we were all abused) and he would have been there when i prayed for him to help me keep my job, when i had faith before i saw how uncaring he is, i made a point to pray for his help each work day, then i get fired FOR DOING THE RIGHT THING!!! he cant take 2 seconds to help, and i should have faith in him, why?! i DARE HIM to prove me wrong, if he even has the power to

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - JMAHabashi, yours rejected you, that was inexcusable, but he didnt BEAT YOU, least of all for HIS PLEASURE, you say god dont lie, that pray belief recieve line, i forget the book, but ive seen that get proven wrong, the not forsaking part, proven wrong again, folks i apologize if i seem like im attacking a core belief of yours, i dont mean to, but religion instead of helping me anymore just makes me angry(i even yell at god, dont really know why, he dont hear it), if he does, he can prove it

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - you challenge me to try to give him what he dont want, i challenge HIM to prove you right and to prove me wrong, but i wont hold my breath for it. if he cared so much, it wouldnt kill him to show it, instead of falling back on this "i sent my son" bit, im reminded of a line i heard in a pastors sermon when i still tried to get his word" i told my wife 50 yrs ago i loved her, if i change my mind she'll be the first to know".

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - ive learned to only believe what i can see, yeah, he exists, ill give ya that, but ive learned to doubt most of what i read and heard about him, because what i read and heard turned out to be false. id love to be able to believe like the rest of you, but what i see outweighs what i learned to be false

greattaiwo Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - Do you realise that you are not alone in pain? how about Job? He went thru trials and still remained true to God.Satan likes this place where you are; bitter, angry at God.Some others go thru what u went thru AND DON'T LIVE TO TELL THE STORY! why can't u be grateful that u have a chance to life? gather urself together and shake off this spirit of bitterness and move on with God. ur story cannot be the worst;Get back into fellowship with Jesus.God still loves u regardless of ur experiences.

feralbigdog Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - last time i checked, im not Job, and i didnt have anywhere near a chance out of the gate, the beatings, as far as i can remember started at 4 years old. as for those that dont live to tell, i wish i hadnt. you say god still loves me, id like you to pass a message to him if he will hear it, that message is 7 words, "show it, prove it, if you can"

doramas44 Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - Muy Bonitaa cancion¡¡¡babyface es el mejor

chlin0430 Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - A very meaningful song.

VincentdiLaredo Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - Very touching and I realize how come, how long...sadness...

Koolaidluv19 Says:

Jul 20, 2008 - The things that happened to you could help save someone. Bad things happen in this world where the devil "roams". As painful as your situation may have been, there is a better place that awaits if you stick with God. I had a painful life as well. My father beat me and my mother and confined us from a normal life, so when i got older, I had no idea how to act. I am a single mother of three kids and their father used to beat and rape me almost everyday. Despite this, I still put my faith in God.